tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34053776.post2202273183295083988..comments2023-10-17T03:01:23.017-05:00Comments on Rosey's Ramblings: OMG, I'm Old...roseykrhhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05082807292068675322noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34053776.post-41230631950675203312008-08-07T10:29:00.000-05:002008-08-07T10:29:00.000-05:00You and AJ are both right. "The tighter you ...You and AJ are both right. "The tighter you hold to something, the more it slips away". This is true with family. In my humble opinion, there is good reason for families moving away from eachother and only getting together occasionally. I don't like drama in my family time, and the more time you spend with people, the more drama there will naturally be. It's human nature. This doesn't mean "only Christmas and Easter", but maybe every weekend is too much... As for levels of friendship, start going out with your casual friends and sharing your secrets and before long they will be CLOSE friends. Then you can share some drama with them, and save the quality time for your family.<BR/><BR/>On top of this, you are your mothers daughter... you have natural tendancies to say things she would say. All you can do is try to overcome it. If you say things that annoy you, just practice holding your tongue. Training yourself to think more before you speak isn't easy, but it's definitely doable. It's easy to snap off something sarcastic and play it off as humor and we're all guilty of it at times, but we need to practice being more sincere, especially with our families.<BR/><BR/>Wow, what a ramble...<BR/><BR/><3<BR/><BR/>p.s. The last few weeks have been very stressful, I have no doubt it contributed, but sometimes these situations are good because they expose things we don't like about ourselves that we are able to work on. Seriously, done rambling...Scotthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07636860677474167554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34053776.post-84533369599983544022008-07-30T07:34:00.000-05:002008-07-30T07:34:00.000-05:00Of course I was just joking with you. I consider y...Of course I was just joking with you. I consider you and several other people at work good friends. But there are different levels of friendship and what I mentioned in my post was "close friends". To me, these are people who know your secrets and your faults (and you know theirs) and they like you anyway. Close friends are the people you want to call when you're upset, or happy, or depressed. <BR/><BR/>You are a very good friend and I love the fact that you are always willing and available to attend events with me. But I haven't really known you for very long and while you may have certainly spotted some of my faults, you don't yet know my secrets. :) <BR/>Does that make sense?Roseykrhhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14716651248358184990noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34053776.post-45197389698966064742008-07-28T15:08:00.000-05:002008-07-28T15:08:00.000-05:00WHATEVER!!!!! I'm even in your blog a few pages do...WHATEVER!!!!! I'm even in your blog a few pages down. Get over it and just join the fun!!! :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00691505700007206064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34053776.post-85395816197795772342008-07-28T14:58:00.000-05:002008-07-28T14:58:00.000-05:00I would come, but I don't like you.I would come, but I don't like you.Roseykrhhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14716651248358184990noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34053776.post-20631082772129245272008-07-28T14:52:00.000-05:002008-07-28T14:52:00.000-05:00First of all I would like to say that Kristy I fin...First of all I would like to say that Kristy I find to be freaking hillarious to hang out with. Even if you are venting about personal issues thats what friends do. And speaking of friends Kristy not all your friends are cousins, some are right here in the great Mercy Med Center. You just need to get out more with people other then family. Don't become like a certain someone we work with and get invited to everything and not ever go then complain you never get to go anywhere. You can be cranky and old thats fine but your still young enough (and you don't act that old) to go out and have a great time with friends. Like for instance this Sat you have been invited to go out for dinner and bowling....but will you come???? hmmmm this remains to be seen. I will update Kristy's blog on Monday and let the rest of you know how things went for her.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00691505700007206064noreply@blogger.com